How to Pay Someone a Compliment in English

How to Pay Someone a Compliment in English One of the nicest things you can do in any language is to compliment someone. You might want to compliment someone on what they did, how they look or what they have. Here are forms and phrases to compliment others in English. The examples below are arranged  into complimenting ability, complimenting looks, and complimenting possessions in both formal and informal situations. Complimenting Ability Use these phrases to compliment someone on an ability they have. If youd like to learn something from the person about his/her ability, start with a compliment. The person will probably help you learn more and be happy to talk about how to do it. Formal If you dont mind my saying, you are a(n) excellent/outstanding/superb (noun phrase)I must say you really know how to (verb)You are a fine (noun phrase)What a(n) excellent/outstanding/superb (noun phrase) you are!I admire your ability to (verb) Mr. Smith, if you dont mind my saying, you are an excellent public speaker.I must say you really know how to paint.I admire your ability to think on your feet. Informal Youre great at (verb ing)You can really (verb)  Wow, I wish I could (verb) as well as you!Youre an amazing/awesome/incredible (noun phrase) Wow! Youre great at skiing!You can really cook. This is amazing food!Youre an awesome student. Complimenting Looks Use these phrases to compliment someone on how they look. This section is divided into two categories: for women and for men. Its important to use the right language for the situation. If you pay someone a compliment on their looks in the wrong way, its possible that your compliment will not be accepted. Formal Notice how we ask permission to pay compliments on good looks in formal English. This is to ensure that no one gets the wrong idea about your intention. May I be so bold as to compliment your (dress/hair/outfit/etc.)?You are looking beautiful/handsome today.May I pay you a compliment? You really look beautiful/handsome/elegant/etc. today.I hope you dont mind, but you are looking beautiful/handsome today. Ms. Anders, may I be so bold as to compliment you on your dress?I hope you dont mind, but I just had to say how wonderful you look today.May I pay you a compliment, Mary? You really look fantastic today. Informal You look great today!Excuse me, are you a model?I really love your (dress/hair/outfit/etc.).What a beautiful (dress/shirt/blouse/haircut/etc.)! Wow, you look great today! Did you do something different?Sherry, what a beautiful dress!I really love your haircut. It makes you look like a movie star. ComplimentingPossessions Use these phrases to compliment someone on something they have. People are often proud of their possessions, especially major objects such as a house, a car, or even a stereo system. Complimenting someone on a nice possession is a good way to make small talk.   Formal I couldnt help but notice your (noun phrase)  What a lovely (noun) you have!You have such a wonderful / lovely / beautiful home / house / apartment / living room / etc.I have to admit Im jealous of your (noun phrase) Tom, I couldnt help but notice your Mercedes. Its a beauty!I have to admit Im jealous of your lovely garden.You have such a cozy home.   Informal Nice (noun phrase)I like your (noun phrase)Thats nice / pretty / beautiful.Cudos on the (noun phrase) dude. Nice car! Is it yours?Cudos on the computer dude. Where did you get it?Do you like my sweater? - Thats nice! Example 1: Ability Gary: Hi Tim. Great round today.Tim: Thanks, Gary. Gary: You can really hit the golf ball.Tim: Youre much too kind. Gary: No really. I wish I could drive as well as you.Tim: Well, take a few lessons. Itll happen. Gary: Ive thought about it. Do you really think it helps?Tim: I used to have a horrible drive. Try a lesson, its worth the price. Example 2: Looks Ms. Smith: Good morning Ms. Anders. How are you today?Mr. Anders: Fine, thank you. And you? Ms. Smith: Im very well. Thank you for asking.Mr. Anders: Ms. Smith, I hope you dont mind, but you are looking very well today. Ms. Smith: Thank you, Mr. Smith. Thats kind of you to say so.Mr. Anders: Yes, well, have a good day Ms. Smith. Ms. Smith: Will I see you at the meeting at 3?Mr. Anders: Yes, Ill be there.   Example 3: Possessions Anna: Thanks for inviting us over for dinner this weekend.Margaret: My pleasure, come right in. Anna: What a lovely home you have! I love the furniture.Margaret: Thank you. We like to call it home. Its cozy. Anna: You have such exquisite taste in decor.Margaret: Now you are exaggerating! Anna: No, really,  its so beautiful.Margaret: Thank you. Youre very kind.